You're in love, but if we're being honest you don't really like your partner lately. You're not seeing eye to eye. What you used to find endearing now grates on your nerves. You can't communicate without arguing. One of you always ends up sleeping on the couch.
You find yourself thinking of your relationship in the following terms:
"The honeymoon phase is over."
"We used to have so much fun."
"They know how I am. Why do they keep pushing my buttons?"
You want to get closer to your partner but you can't stop bickering.
When we're insecure in our relationship, we can feel trapped. And that sense of feeling trapped can lead to feelings of anxiety and overwhelm. You find yourself wanting more time alone, dreaming of getting away.
Trying to fix your relationship on your own can be an exercise in futility.
If you are going through any of the below, our providers at Englewood Therapy can help:
Our goal is to help each of you really hear the other, really learn what matters to one another.
Throughout our time together, you'll learn more about yourselves as individuals and how your attachment styles can complement each other to lead to a healthy dynamic. You'll learn to break the patterns that keep you stuck.
The end result?
We know that coming together to work on a partnership is a big deal.
So if you’ve read your last self-help book, watched your last Ted Talk, slept on the couch one too many nights, reach out below for a free 15 minute consultation and let’s get started.